UK tips

📸 Not everything is as it seems on the surface In the UK, where parenting often feels like a race—between school runs, packed lunches, and endless WhatsApp groups—it’s easy to think other parents have it all together. You scroll through Instagram and see polished photos of birthday parties, quiet study sessions, or perfectly dressed kids. […]

For many Nigerian families in the UK, talking to children about puberty can feel awkward—or even like a taboo. But the reality is that puberty is a major milestone in a child’s life, both physically and emotionally, and children today are often exposed to (sometimes misleading) information through school, friends, social media, and TV. So […]

It starts small—some shouting, maybe a little arguing—then boom! Your living room turns into Royal Rumble UK Edition. Sound familiar? With school closures, holidays, and more time indoors, many Nigerian families in the UK are dealing with sibling fights, screaming matches, and tension in the home. But don’t worry—we’ve got practical, culturally relevant tips to […]

As Nigerian parents in the UK, we all want our children to succeed — not just with good grades or high-paying jobs, but to grow into well-rounded, confident, and happy adults. According to Harvard’s Center on the Developing Child, success has less to do with academic records and more to do with executive function skills […]

Raising children far from home—navigating both Naija warmth and UK life—comes with unique joys and challenges. These “gifts” cost nothing but mean everything: 1. Cuddles & Physical Affection Those cosy bedtime hugs, hand-holding on a chilly morning, or warm snuggles during family time may feel small, but they’re powerful. Physical affection builds trust and emotional […]

As Naija parents in the UK, we all want our children to thrive — whether at school, at home, or in the wider community. But when it comes to conditions like ADHD, misinformation can hold us back from giving our kids the right support. ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) affects many Nigerian families, whether we […]

1️⃣ Not every feeling needs fixing — but it must be heard We like to fix things quickly: “Stop crying!” “Don’t worry!” But sometimes, people just need you to listen — fully, patiently, no interruption. Real support starts when we hear each other, not just rush to give advice. 2️⃣ Mistakes aren’t shameful — hiding […]

Buying your first home in the UK as a Nigerian can feel daunting—but trust us, it’s doable! Let’s break it down. Is there a special mortgage for first-time buyers? Not really. Most lenders don’t offer mortgages exclusively for first-time buyers. What they do have are regular mortgages that work well if you’ve never owned a […]