As Naija parents in the UK, we all want our children to thrive — whether at school, at home, or in the wider community. But when it comes to conditions like ADHD, misinformation can hold us back from giving our kids the right support.
ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) affects many Nigerian families, whether we talk about it or not. Sadly, myths around ADHD often cause stigma, shame, or silence — leaving kids misunderstood and unsupported. Let’s set the record straight, so we can advocate for our children with confidence.
1️⃣ Myth: ADHD Is Not a Real Medical Condition
Truth: ADHD is a medically recognised neurodevelopmental disorder. It runs in families — so if your child has it, someone else in the family may too. Brain scans show real differences in the parts of the brain linked to focus, memory, and self-control. ADHD isn’t bad parenting or “indiscipline” — it’s biology.
2️⃣ Myth: Children with ADHD Just Need to “Try Harder”
Truth: Kids with ADHD are not lazy. Telling them to “just focus” is like telling someone with poor eyesight to “just see better.” Their brains process information differently — it’s not about effort but support.
3️⃣ Myth: Kids with ADHD Can Never Concentrate
Truth: They can! Many kids with ADHD “hyperfocus” on things they find really interesting — like video games, drawing, or a favourite show. The challenge is focusing on tasks that feel boring or repetitive.
4️⃣ Myth: All Kids with ADHD Are Hyperactive
Truth: Not all children with ADHD are “bouncing off the walls.” Some may just seem daydreamy, forgetful, or easily distracted — especially girls. That’s why some kids go undiagnosed for years.
5️⃣ Myth: ADHD Only Affects Boys
Truth: Boys are more likely to be diagnosed, but girls have ADHD too — it often looks different. Girls may struggle silently with focus and organisation but get overlooked because they’re not disruptive.
6️⃣ Myth: ADHD Is a Learning Disability
Truth: ADHD is not a learning disability. But it can make learning harder because of attention and organisation struggles. Many kids with ADHD also have learning difficulties — but they’re separate issues. The good news? Support is available through schools and the NHS.
7️⃣ Myth: Kids Will Outgrow ADHD
Truth: Some symptoms change over time — but most people don’t “outgrow” ADHD completely. Adults often still face challenges with time management, planning, and emotional regulation. Early understanding and coping skills make all the difference.
💚 Final Word for Our Naija Community in the UK
Let’s break the silence and the shame. ADHD is real, and it’s nothing to be embarrassed about. When we educate ourselves, we can advocate better for our kids at school, with doctors, and in our homes.
No child should feel alone or “bad” for how their brain works — they just need the right tools and understanding to shine.
✨ Stay informed, stay proud. Naija no dey carry last! 🇳🇬🇬🇧
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