In a country where life moves fast and isolation is all too common, especially for immigrants trying to settle in, one thing can shift your mood and mindset: kindness. Not just being nice — but choosing to intentionally look out for others in your everyday life.
Take it from Tyler VanderWeele, a Harvard professor who dedicates six weeks every year to intentional acts of kindness — like buying lunch for a friend, helping a colleague at work, or simply checking in on someone who might be feeling down.
Sounds simple? It is. But the benefits are powerful — both for others and for you.
💚 Why Kindness Matters — Even for Your Health
Kindness isn’t just a feel-good idea; it’s backed by science. Research shows that being kind can:
- Boost your mood and confidence
- Ease anxiety and loneliness (a big deal for those far from home)
- Improve your heart health by lowering stress
- Help you live longer through things like volunteerism and social connection
Imagine that — helping someone else can literally help you live better. And here in the UK, where it’s easy to get lost in the system or feel like just another number, small acts of kindness can go a long way in building real community.
🌱 Can Kindness Become a Habit?
Yes. And it works best when it’s intentional.
VanderWeele found that doing five kind things in a single day, once a week for six weeks, made a bigger difference than spreading them out. Think of it like a workout for your character.
Over time, being kind becomes instinctive. You stop waiting for the “right moment” and just go for it — even when you’re tired from night shifts or missing home.
🙌 Ways Nigerians in the UK Can Spread Kindness
Here are some easy, meaningful ways to make a difference in your daily life:
- Offer to help an elderly Nigerian at church or the Afro-Caribbean shop
- Compliment a fellow commuter or service worker
- Share jollof rice or suya with a neighbour or colleague
- Pick up groceries for someone who’s housebound
- Volunteer at a food bank or local Nigerian community centre
- Send a voice note to encourage a friend going through tough times
- Help a newcomer settle into the UK system — NHS, schools, etc.
- Be patient with a struggling family member back home
- Smile or say hello on the bus — it costs nothing
These aren’t just gestures. They’re building blocks of a better community.
💭 Final Thoughts
Whether you’re a student in Birmingham, a nurse in Derby, or a parent juggling three jobs in London, remember: Kindness isn’t weakness — it’s strength.
In a world that often feels cold, you can be the warmth someone else needs. And as Nigerians, we know the power of community. Let’s keep that spirit alive, even far from home.
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